In conjunction with our Midweek Connection series entitled, "Relationships in 3s," we solicited input from the entire Single Focus group regarding the areas of morality, interaction, and dating. In particular, we asked the guys to give input in these areas for their sisters, and we inquired of the ladies for input about these issues for their brothers. We did this to emphasize the family focus of the body of Christ, and to remind ourselves that none of us make decisions in a vacuum. Even in the delicate area of morality, we are helped by having some of these discussions in a mixed group so that we can look into each other's faces and remind ourselves that we should be living for one another, even as we live for Christ (cf. Romans 14). Specifically, regarding those three areas mentioned above, we asked each group to share with the opposite gender (1) what they wanted to thank them for, (2) what they wanted to share with them, and (3) how they wanted to counsel them. It's humorous that even in the length of conversation from one group to another, the God-ordained complementary differences of the genders are highlighted. Here's what the guys and girls had to say to one another: From the Girls to the Guys Regarding Morality
From the Guys to the Girls
It’s no surprise – mobile devices are here to stay. So, this kind of practical entry may be one of the most helpful for us. As the dangers of the internet grew, so did Christians’ awareness of internet safety programs like Safe Eyes and Covenant Eyes. These programs have become more and more helpful and necessary for believers to remain pure and innocent (Romans 16:19) in this web-based world. Now, with the explosion of mobile devices, it’s time for believers to become equally knowledgable and skillful concerning how to protect themselves on these devices. Since I’m a Mac guy, the following information only pertains directly to Apple’s iPhone and iPod Touch. However, many of the same restriction settings are available on other mobile devices. Before jumping into the practical instructions, let me quickly say that as you battle internet temptations and traps, you will need to “preach the gospel to yourself every day.” On the one hand, without a continuing grasp of the love and grace of God in Christ Jesus, even your best “fences” will be powerless against the onslaught of sin and your flesh (cf. Jeremiah 17:9; Romans 1:16; Titus 2:11-12). On the other hand, such a regularly-sought-after grasp on grace should be complemented by an earnest pursuit of holiness (Hebrews 12:14). In this way, our salvation will be complete (cf. Philippians 2:12-13). So, the instructions that follow are part of that pursuit of holiness, and are by no means a replacement for preaching the gospel to yourself. Only a fervent and active relationship with Jesus Christ will give you the delight to continue your duty. |
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